I bypassed the automated system and demanded to speak to the head pharmacist. When he finally got on the line, I aggressively questioned the dosage, ready to threaten a malpractice lawsuit for the error. The pharmacist tapped on his keyboard for a few moments, pulling up my grandfather’s extensive file.
“Ma’am, this wasn’t an error on our end,” he said, his customer-service tone dropping into something much more serious. “We changed the refill instructions and dosage exactly five months ago.” Five months ago. The exact timeline of when my grandfather started fading away. “Based on what?” I demanded, my voice trembling.
“His doctor didn’t authorize this!” “It was based on a direct request,” the pharmacist replied. “Let me look at the override notes.” There was a brief silence on the line that felt like an eternity. “Ah, here it is. A family member called. They identified themselves as his medical power-of-attorney, stated that the doctor had verbally recommended an increase due to high readings at home, and authorized the dosage increase to be filled immediately.” I stood frozen in the middle of the kitchen.
I stared out into the living room where my grandfather was dozing quietly in his armchair, his chest rising and falling in a shallow rhythm. I am my grandfather’s only power-of-attorney. A cold sweat broke out over my entire body. Someone in my family had intentionally impersonated me, lied to the pharmacy, and deliberately manipulated my grandfather’s medication to cause him physical harm.
This wasn’t an accident. It was poisoning. I thanked the pharmacist, told him to immediately flag the account to only accept in-person authorizations from me going forward, and hung up. Brenda was looking at me, clearly realizing from my side of the conversation that something criminal had just occurred.
We immediately disposed of the extra pills, and she stayed for another hour to monitor his vitals, ensuring he was stable on his correct, lower dosage.
Once I knew he was medically safe, the terror morphed into a cold, calculated rage. I needed to know who made that call.
I had to secure the pharmacy records. I drove to the pharmacy in person the next morning with my legal power-of-attorney documents, my ID, and a terrifying mission. Because it was a medical issue involving potential elder abuse, the pharmacist was highly cooperative. He provided me with the exact date and time the phone call was made five months prior.
Armed with the date and time, I logged into my grandfather’s phone carrier account. I scoured his incoming call logs for that specific day. My grandfather still used a traditional landline that forwarded to his basic cell phone, and we had the records of every number that dialed in or out.
Right there, on the day in question, twenty minutes before the pharmacy logged their authorization call, was a twenty-five-minute phone call to my grandfather’s house. It was from my Aunt Marie. Marie is my father’s sister, my grandfather’s youngest daughter. She has always been the chaotic element in our family—constantly in debt, historically bitter about my grandfather’s decision to name me (his responsible granddaughter) as the executor of his estate and his PoA, and always hovering around looking for a handout.